Showing posts with label Personal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Personal. Show all posts

Monday, 17 March 2025

My Mother's Death

Christina Allan Miller (née McCulloch) (1945-2025)
 
My mother died peacefully in her sleep at Glasgow Royal Infirmary after a long battle with illness just after midnight on Sunday, 16th March. She was 79 years old. My sisters and I and the rest of the family are all deeply mourning her passing.

Christina Allan McCulloch was born in Glasgow on 3rd October 1945 and was the eldest of two children of Aaron McCulloch (1917-1990) and Jessie McCulloch née Purdie (1920-2002). Coincidentally, she shared the same birthday as my father, 3rd October, though born in different years.
She was baptised on 21st November 1945 at St Thomas' Church of Scotland on Gallowgate and remained a church member her entire life.

Her father, Aaron ('Ernie') was a Battery Sergeant Major in the Royal Canadian Artillery, stationed in the UK during World War 2 where he met my grandmother. They were married in 1944. As well as my mother, they also had a second daughter, Jean ('Jeanette') born in 1947. The family moved to Canada after the war, but unfortunately, the marriage did not endure and my grandmother and mother returned to Scotland before Jean was born.

As an adult, she later met her father and her half-siblings, Ian and Susan, in Canada and continued to be in contact with them from then on.

My mum grew up in the house she had been born in at 227 Abercromby Street and she attended St James's Primary School in Calton and John Street Secondary School in Bridgeton. She left school at sixteen and worked in several office jobs, going from office junior to senior positions in the accounts and wages departments of several local firms in Bridgeton including the large Welma Bakery.

The family were always churchgoers and my mother became a member of Greenhead and Barrowfield Church in London Road when she was about 16 years old. After it was closed down, she became a member of Calton New Parish Church near the Barras (later named St Luke's).

She later joined the Orange Lodge and it was there she met my father, James Miller (1929-2011). They were married on 23rd October 1971 and the marriage lasted until his death in 2011, less than a year short of what would have been their Ruby wedding anniversary.

After she got married, my mother gave up work and became a mother when I was born in 1972. My parents then went on to have three more children, all daughters in 1974, 1977 and 1981.

My mother was always shortsighted but in 1978 she suffered a detached retina which resulted in the loss of sight in one eye. Although this must have been a lot to come to terms with for a young woman in her early 30s, she never showed it and went on to have another child in 1981 and thereafter went back to work as a Home Help from 1985 until she retired.

The family moved to a bigger house in 1978, where she lived until her death (she only lived at two addresses from birth to death) and soon after we all started going to Bridgeton St Francis-in-the-East Parish Church in Queen Mary Street. It was there she became heavily involved in the life of the congregation.

An important event for my mother was the Billy Graham rallies held in Glasgow in 1991. Although going as a member of the choir, she came to Christ personally at one of those meetings and always felt that her faith had deepened and strengthened after that.

She was ordained as an elder of the church in 1992 and served in many ways in the church, including the church singing group, session and board meetings, fundraising, social events, and a spell as the church's cleaner. She also attended the midweek prayer and Bible study meeting faithfully for many years and two services on Sundays most weeks.

Although with four kids to look after she must not have had a lot of free time when we were growing up, she had many hobbies and interests.

She loved dogs and always had a dog or two dogs as pets all her life. They became her constant companions in later life. 
 

She loved watching films, especially thrillers, westerns and war films. Before her eyesight started to fail, she loved reading books and was a big fan of the thriller writer Jeffery Deaver. Later she would listen to audiobooks with my sister.

She was a lifelong Rangers supporter and used to attend regularly at Ibrox during the 1960s before she got married. She was still listening to games right up to when she had to go into hospital for the last time. She also loved other sports including Rugby and has been to Murrayfield several times to watch Scotland. On TV and the radio, she also liked to watch or listen to boxing matches, especially heavyweight world title fights.

She also used to knit and she was good at drawing.

She was a good singer and loved listening to all kinds of music, from the Beatles to Lady Gaga. She also enjoyed listening to classical music at times. Puccini was her favourite composer.

Every week she would write letters to her sister in Canada, and later she regularly corresponded with her father and half-sister in Canada also.

She loved East Lothian and we spent many holidays through at Port Seton. She also liked the bustle of seaside holidays at Blackpool and went to Spain on holiday several times. She later enjoyed trips to Canada a few times and New York. Later she enjoyed many holidays on the Isle of Mull or up in Nethybridge or Boat of Garten, as well as the Peak District at Chatsworth. One of her last big holidays was a cruise to Norway just last year after her first stroke.

Aside from all that, she was a fantastic mum and was very proud of her children and anything we accomplished. She doted on her grandchildren.

Above all she was my friend—I could talk to her about anything and everything—and I will miss her wisdom, her wit and her love. The whole family will always miss her, though we are grateful her health struggles are over.
 
My wife once asked her what she would like to be remembered for. She said: "That I was a formidable woman."

Rest easy mammy. You were that and so much more.

Saturday, 15 April 2023

Our Questions and God's Answers


I am happy to say that I have a new, short, e-book published on Kindle. This one is a basic presentation of the gospel in a series of questions and answers, mainly using the Bible directly to answer the questions

The book was very much inspired by an old tract written for soldiers during World War II by the American Presbyterian minister, Gordon MacLennan. I have re-written, modernised and expanded MacLennan's work in this new e-book. Longtime readers of this blog will know that I have previously written about and shared the original tract because it was what led be to become a Christian when I read it some 35 years ago.

I had hoped to make this book available for free, but Amazon insists on a minimum price being set. 

You can find the e-book here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Questions-Gods-Answers-James-Miller-ebook/dp/B0C28RVHBH/

Tuesday, 19 March 2019

Man's Questions and God's Answers

For me, this is the greatest evangelistic tract I have ever read. It was written by Dr A. Gordon MacLennan of Philadelphia, and was included in a series of small booklets for the troops during the Second World War. Why the greatest? Not because it is necessarily the best, or the most eloquent, or the clearest, or the easiest to read, though I do not find it deficient in any of these respects, but because the Lord used it to save me when I first read it just before Christmas 1987.

I have only edited it slightly where one or two illustrations for the 1940s are now obscure or misleading.
 

Man is constantly asking questions. One of the most hopeful and encouraging signs in the mental development of a boy or girl is the habit of asking questions. The person who really succeeds in this world in material things is the one who is constantly, inquisitively, and persistently asking questions. The one who takes everything for granted, and receives it just as it comes will generally move along in that type of life all his days, but the person who wants to know the why and wherefore of everything is the one who makes the most of the circumstances which surround him in life.

So our subject is one which concerns every man; and I do feel that the topic, as I have noted it, is one that is particularly applicable to the man who has not yet satisfied himself regarding the great facts of the spiritual life and the spiritual experience.

To each of the questions which I want to bring to you, there is a simple form of answer, all of which are absolutely definite, simple, and easy to understand. They are not obscure questions of the hour, but are entirely practical for you and me, and altogether important, because they have to do with a man's eternal destiny, and a man's experience in all the ages yet to be.

The first is one which every man who believes that there is a God, infinite, eternal, and unchanging, must necessarily stop and ask:

Am I Accountable to God?

Must I answer to Him? Is there a day coming -- and I insist that we keep the question practical -- when you and I in a very real manner shall stand before God and give an account?

This is the fundamental question; this is an important question, and one well worth considering and thinking over: Am I accountable to God? We like to boast of our independence, and we like to say we are not answerable to anyone; but are we definitely, personally accountable to God? Listen to the answer from Romans 14.12: "So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God."

Your question and my question is a definite one: Shall we give an account to God? God answers it just as definitely: "Every one of us shall give account of himself to God." That settles the matter! It is a statement on the authority of God Himself. And it is just as foolish to try to escape the dawning of a day as it is to escape giving an account to God.

The second question:

Does God Know All About Me?

This one, too, is important. Aye, on the basis of the first, it is tremendously important! Now that I have to give an account to Him, does God know all about me?

Those I associate with see merely the outside. They hear what I say; they see my actions, but the inner man they know not. My thoughts are veiled and hidden from the knowledge of my friends. Does God know all about me? God gives answer to this question in Hebrews 4.13: "All things are naked and opened unto the eyes of Him with whom we have to do."

Notice the third question:

Does God Charge Me With Sin?

This becomes more and more important upon the basis of the preceding two questions and their answers. I shall give an account of God, and God knows all about me. (Let us keep it simple and practical.) Does God, to whom I am to give an account and who knows all about me, charge me with sin? It is all recorded against me? It does not matter how well I can excuse myself to some other person. It does not matter how other people regard me. Here is the important question: Does God charge me with sin?

Let me merely read the answer from Galatians 3.22: "But the Scripture hath concluded all under sin." And again, from Romans 3.23: "For ALL have sinned." This is God's charge: "All have sinned." It is an utter impossibility for any man or woman to escape the all-inclusiveness of that little word of three letters, A-L-L. From the prince in the palace to the waif in the street, from the highest to the lowest, from the east to the west -- "all have sinned."

And it does seem as if it would be wise for any man, if these answers are true and correct, to sit down and face them as he would face any question of his daily life or his business life.

The fourth question:

Will God Punish Sin?

Now God's answer to the question just preceding this is that you and I are charged with sin. Therefore, will God punish sin? I realise that there are those who say that God is too good to punish sin. But, notice, this statement originated with men, and not with God. There is no place in all the revealed Word of God where it says He will not punish sin. All the way through God says that He will punish sin.

The answer to that question is found in Ezekiel 18.4: "The soul that sinneth, it shall die." Notice, also, Romans 6.23: "For the wages of sin is death." It is not mere physical death, the death of the body; it is eternal death, the second death.

The fifth question, following naturally after this is:

Need I Perish?

Is there no way I can escape the punishment and judgment for my sins? I am accountable to God. He knows all about me. He does charge me with sin. He will punish sin. But need I perish for my sins?

Let me read God's answer in 2 Peter 3.9: "The Lord is not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance."

The sixth:

How Can I Escape?

There is running through the midnight darkness of the coming judgment a ray of hope. God is not willing that I should perish. How then can I escape? How can I get away from the coming judgment on sin? That, too, is a practical question.

The answer that God gives is just as plain and definite as the question. In Acts 16.31 we read: "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved."

The Gospel is the most simple thing in all the world. There is, first of all, the great, stupendous, inescapable fact of sin, and that we are linked with it. Then there is the fact of Christ, and salvation through Christ. Is it not simple? "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved."

Notice the seventh question:

Is He Able to Save Me?

God says, in answer to the question as to how I can escape, "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ." The thing I am concerned about next is whether He is able to save me. Has He the power, has He the ability to rescue me from the punishment of sin and the judgment to come? You will find God's answer in Hebrews 7.25: "He is able to save them to the uttermost that unto God by Him."

Now that we know on God's own authority that He is able to save, the question, the eighth, would be:

Is He Willing to Save Me?

Oh, how many of us are able to do things, but we are not willing! We are face to face with the great facts of sin and judgment. We have discovered on God's authority, in answer to our questions, that He is not willing that we should perish; that He has provided a way of escape by believing on the Lord Jesus Christ; and that Jesus Christ is able to save. Is He willing to save now? The answer is in 1 Timothy 1.15: "Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners."

When you think of the Babe in the manger of Bethlehem, of the dying form of the Son of God on the Cross of Calvary, and of the empty tomb, dare you ask, "Is He willing?" He undertook the journey to earth from Glory, and went through all the anguish and suffering on Calvary's Cross, the guilty to save. Then He is willing: He is willing!

Let me take the ninth question. This is one in which so many people seem to become involved, and yet God's answer is very clear and very plain. It is a simple question, a practical question, and an important question:

Am I Saved by Merely Believing?

God's answer is in John 3.36: "He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life."

There is no other condition of salvation but faith of Jesus Christ as Saviour. May I use just one illustration.

You remember when Jesus hung on Calvary's Cross there were crucified with Him two thieves, one on the right hand, the other on the left. One thief joined with those around in ridiculing Christ, but the other thief rebuked him for it, and said to Jesus, "Lord, remember me when Thou comest into Thy kingdom." And Jesus said to him, to the thief who was dying on the cross, "Today shalt thou be with Me in Paradise." He had no work to do so that he might gain salvation. He only had a criminal record. But on the cross, with his last breath, he believed. He was saved by merely believing on Jesus Christ.

In following the natural line of questionings, the tenth would be:

Can I Be Saved Now?

It is God's answer I am concerned about, and it is God's answer which means everything to you. Listen, then from 2 Corinthians 6.2: "Behold, now is the accepted time, now is the day of salvation."

Now is the time to decide. You know not about tomorrow, and yesterday is gone. "Believe (NOW) on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved." Let me take the next question:

Can I Be Saved as I am?

Without preparation, without getting ready, without making myself better in character in appearance? Can I be saved just as I am? With all my sin, with all my stains, with all my filthiness?

Let me read the answer from John 6.37: "Him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out."
No matter how filthy your garments, no matter how stained by sin and bruised by many a fall--"Him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out."

The twelfth question:

Shall I Not Fall Away?

If I do come, and if I am saved, what if I shall fall away again?

In Jude 24, God answers: "Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling."

The thirteenth question:

If I Have Been Saved, How Should I Live?

If I have believed on the Lord Jesus Christ, how should I live now? God's answer is from 2 Corinthians 5.15: "They which live should not henceforth live unto themselves, but unto him which died for them."

And here is a question which has made strong men tremble, and brave men weak. It the question which has broken down the reserve of many a man as he has stood at the edge of an open grave:

What About Death and Eternity?

Let me give the answer of Jesus Christ himself: "I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself: that where I am, there ye may be also." (John 14:2-3)

Is it not true that, as I have passed from one question to another, I have touched all the great questions that man has to ask? And is it not equally true that to every question of man's there is the definite, plain answer from God himself?

God's Question

Over against man's questions and God's answers, I want to put the one great final question that God asks of you. And God waits, the angels wait, all heaven waits for your answer! God has answered your questions. What will you do with God's question? How will you answer it? He has one single question to ask. And I challenge any man or woman who has not yet done so to face it, and give answer! This is God's question to you, my friend: "WHAT WILL YOU DO WITH JESUS, WHICH IS CALLED CHRIST?" God has answered all the questions you can ask. How will you answer him? What will you do with Jesus, which is called Christ? Will you say--

"Here and now I accept him as my own and only Saviour?"

Wednesday, 4 January 2017

Festive Illness

I hope you had a great Christmas and I wish you a happy new year for 2017.

As for me, I've been ill since before Christmas with a heavy cold and then a chest infection which has been hard to shift. I'm hoping the second lot of antibiotics will do the trick, but I'm still coughing a lot today and have not yet made it back to work.

It was strange to have to miss going to church right through the festive period. I think I was last at church around 11th December. It's the first year I can remember when I don't think I sang a single Christmas carol or heard a Christmas sermon. And now I've missed the new year sermons as well.

It struck me that my Christmas experience this year was exactly that of most people in Scotland today - a Christmas without so much as "darkening the door" of a church. The big difference being that my absence was forced upon me by illness; most people's is voluntary. Many churches are looking to give a special welcome to visitors at Christmas, but relatively few come, which is sad for everyone.

I also got a glimpse into the lives of people who cannot get to church because of illness. It made me see how important it is to bring church to people who can't come to church. That is something I don't think most churches think about nearly enough.

As we come to Epiphany on 6th January, we continue to remember the message of Christmas, that God became a human being in that baby in the manger is good news for all year round, for all of humanity of every race and nation, and for all eternity.

Friday, 2 January 2015

Happy 2015

Happy new year to all my readers.

2014 was a difficult year for me in some ways. I seemed to be always catching colds and stomach bugs. I don't think I had a whole month in 2014 without being ill at some point. I went to my doctor to talk it over and he said I shouldn't be too worried about it. It's just sometimes you get a run of things, especially when you're the dad to a two-year old who is always picking up bugs from his friends in play groups and mother and toddler groups.

I'm hoping things will improve in 2015 on that front.

At church, we have much to look forward to in the coming year. For one thing, we are enjoying having a new minister at our church after a vacancy that lasted more than three years. Jonathan de Groot has really hit the ground running at Sandyford Henderson. I've heard many people commenting on how much they have enjoyed his preaching since he took up post in November. We're all looking forward to hearing his new ideas for taking the church forward in 2015 under the Lord's guidance.

On the political front, having got through the Referendum in 2014 we can now focus on normal politics again with the UK general election due to take place in just five months' time in May. It promises to be a very difficult election to predict. At the moment, the most likely result is likely to be a hung parliament with a significant increase in SNP MPs and UKIP MPs likely at the expense of all the main UK parties. However, we need to remember Harold Wilson's famous adage that "a week is a long time in politics." Five months is an eternity and things could look very different come the spring than they do now.

Whatever the year holds in store for us, I wish you every blessing for happiness, prosperity and peace.

Friday, 18 July 2014

A Political Phase


I haven't been blogging much in the last couple of months. One of the reasons for this is that I haven't been that well. I've had quite a few colds and then hay fever, the odd chest infection, and most recently I got a molar tooth out and its been infected and sore as well. I'm hoping to have a better second half of the year than I have in the first half healthwise.

The other reason I haven't been blogging much is because I've been reading more. I've always been interested in politics and current affairs and have been reading some more political books. I have always believed there is a strong link between faith and politics. I suppose I wanted to test out what I believed about politics and how I saw the gospel impacting on political views. I read material from across the political spectrum from right wing Thatcherites and Neoconservatives through Liberal, Socialist and Marxist thinkers.

In the end, having tried to see what is good and bad in all systems I came back to pretty close to where I started - I'm in the Centre of the political spectrum on most issues. My wife summed up my views more succinctly than I ever could myself. She said something like "You think that to be a really Right-wing conservative is incompatible with the gospel." I guess that is so.

There are a few political opinion tests and questionnaires I found useful online. If you want to think about your political views and where you stand, check out the following websites.

http://voteforpolicies.org.uk/

http://www.politicalcompass.org/index

http://uk.isidewith.com/political-quiz




Sunday, 28 July 2013

Summer Days

Summer in the UK so far this year has been sunny and hot (which is not always the case overseas readers should note) and I haven't been blogging much. The lovely weather has seen me spend more time with my wife and son outdoors than in front of my computer. We've got to know quite a few of Glasgow's many beautiful parks this year on days out.

For a lifelong city dweller, this summer has brought me closer to nature than I can remember at any time for years, from all the spiders, flies and moths in the house from the garden to the little field mouse who ran into our living room the other night and then vanished again just as quickly. Plus there's all the trees and flowers that all look so vibrant in the sunshine.

Reflecting on all this, that God made this beautiful world and he made it to be our home, shows not only what a wonderful artist and designer he is. How write the Psalmist was when he wrote: "Great is the Lord and most worthy of praise; his greatness no one can fathom." (Psalm 145:3)


Sunday, 10 March 2013

A Mother's Day Interview on the BBC

Just in time for Mother's Day, my disabled wife, Laura was featured in an interview with the BBC that is on today's BBC Scotland News. As well as the article, there is also a link to a podcast where Laura got the chance to speak in some depth about what it's like to be a mother who uses a wheelchair.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/ouch/2013/03/im_a_crawling_mummy_how_one_di.html

Monday, 31 December 2012

Goodbye 2012, Hello 2013

So we come to the end of another year today and we head into the 9th year of this blog for 2013.

I wish all my readers a happy, peaceful and blessed new year when it comes and hope you will continue to visit, read and comment on my blog next year.

Whatever the year ahead holds for us, may we know the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit in all we do.

Tuesday, 4 December 2012

Online and On TV

My wife Laura is disabled, a wheelchair user, and a full-time mother. She has recently written an article for the charity Disabled Parents Network and then was interviewed by for The One Show on BBC1.

You can read her article here: http://disabledparentsnetwork.org.uk/a-new-mums-story/

And, at least in the UK (not sure about the rest of the world) you can watch the TV programme here: http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b01p6rw7/The_One_Show_03_12_2012/

Sunday, 26 August 2012

Holidays

We're just back from a lovely week's holiday at Ambrisbeg Cottage on the Isle of Bute. It was a really relaxing and restful break. As ever for the west coast of Scotland the weather was mixed but warm and sunny a lot of the time and we enjoyed exploring the island. The extra fun this year was going away with our seven-month old son. He had his first experience of the sea, a sandy beach, had a wee paddle in a tidal pool and a wee swim in the indoor pool in Rothesay.

Thoroughly recommended if a holiday in a cottage on a Scottish island is your idea of a good holiday.

Friday, 13 July 2012

On turning 40

On Wednesday I turned 40. My wife and family made sure I had a wonderful day and I received many great cards and presents.

Each year I enter a new decade I think it's a good time to reflect and take stock of where I am and where I'm going.

So what were my 30s like? It was a decade of great change for me and as the decade progressed from 2002 to 2012 it was a period during which I learnt the lesson that those we love really are the most important thing in life. The decade was one of people leaving my life as they died and other people coming into my life through marriage and parenthood.

In 2002 I lost my grandmother who had lived with us my whole life and right at the beginning of 2011 I lost my dad and I still miss him so much. These losses left two great holes in my circle of the five or six people that everyone keeps closest to them.

But then in 2009 I married Laura, who is my wife, my best friend and my soul mate all wrapped up in one amazing lady. Sharing everything in married life has made me twice the person I could ever have been on my own without her.

Just six months ago our son Jonathan was born and what a wonderful privilege it is to see a life develop from its very beginning and see a person not just a baby begin to take shape. What a great responsibility it also is to know that I will play an important part in how this little person grows up and the kind of man he will one day be.

As I turn 40 I am completely contented with my life and immensely grateful to the Lord for all the blessings he has given me.

As I look forward, I gulp with astonishment that in only 10 years I will be 50!! That can't be surely - it only feels like I was at university a couple of years ago. But I also look forward to having a great decade ahead and to sharing it all with my family and my friends. You all mean more to me than I could ever say in words.

Monday, 14 May 2012

Putting yourself in someone else's thumb

I cut my thumb yesterday while cutting up some chicken for dinner. Not too bad a cut, but it needed bandaged and left me unable to use my left thumb for very much for the rest of the day (and today).

The amount of things I've had difficulty doing since has been remarkable. It includes:

  • Unable to open packets wrapped in cellophane
  • Difficulty opening jars and bottles
  • Difficulty changing gear in the car
  • A challenge to hold a book and turn the pages
  • Great difficulty doing the buttons up on my shirt (especially cuffs)
  • A challenge to tie shoe laces
 And all because of a fairly minor cut on the thumb.

I wouldn't be so crass as to claim I understand how many disabled people really cope day-in-day-out (and I say that as the husband of a wife who is a wheelchair user). But to experience even a tiny bit of difficulty makes my heart go out to everyone who struggles with physical limitations whether the disabled or the elderly. And I can't help thinking of the many service personnel who have lost limbs in Afghanistan and Iraq. They are all incredible people and I think it behooves all of us to think about each others needs and look after each other much more than we do.


Sunday, 29 April 2012

Baptism

It was a real pleasure to gather with family and friends for the baptism of our son, Jonathan James Miller, at Sandyford Henderson Memorial Church in Glasgow this morning.

The service was conducted by one of the leading evangelicals in the Church of Scotland, Rev Martin Allen who reminded us again that baptism is a sign and seal of the covenant of grace and a reminder that God's promises are to us and to our children. And there we can stand firm and sure, trusting not in any "magic" surrounding baptism but trusting in God.

It was a pleasure to meet Martin last Tuesday to discuss today's service. And it was a pleasure to hear one of the finest preachers in the Church of Scotland today preach the sermon from the story of Hannah and Samuel in 1 Samuel 1-2.

I found the service very moving and it was a joyful experience for all the family. Yet also a sobering one as I reflected on the promises I made to bring up Jonathan in the Christian faith, to teach him the Bible and prayer, and to set him a Christian example. No lightweight promises those. But I pray that Laura and I will both make good our vows and one day Jonathan will come to a living faith in the Lord Jesus.

Thursday, 12 January 2012

The Birth of My Son

My baby son, Jonathan James Miller, was born at 1.49 am on 11 January 2012 at the Southern General Hospital in Glasgow, weighing 8 lbs 4 oz.

The name Jonathan is from the Hebrew Yonatan and means "given by Yahweh" or "the gift of Yahweh" or as we might put it "God's gift".

It reflects our faith that our son was given to us by God as a precious gift.

His middle name James is after my late and much-missed father and by extension, after me.

Jonathan already has a special place in my heart and I am looking forward so much to sharing the rest of my life with him and his mother who was truly "super-mum" personified throughout the pregnancy, labour, birth and beyond.

Saturday, 31 December 2011

2011 Review of the Year

What a year of ups and downs this has been!

The year couldn't have got off to a worse start when my dad died on 1st January. Because of the need to have a postmortem exam and delays because of the Christmas and New Year backlog, his funeral didn't take place until 17th January. That period of time is a strange mixture of sharp memories of certain things and a total blur of winter days that passed so slowly while we waited for the funeral.

January was followed by a difficult February as the period of mourning continued. All this happened in the middle of our trying to start a family.

Then at the end of March we found out that Laura was pregnant and suddenly the year took on a completely different complexion as we began the nine month journey towards our baby's birth (a journey we are still on as the due date of 8th January approaches).

All this happened against the backdrop of world events in which the so-called Arab Spring swept through a number of Middle East countries as popular uprisings led to changes in governments.

The same could not be said in Scotland as the SNP was returned for the first time as a majority government at the Scottish Parliament elections in May.

In May too, the minister at our church retired and since then we have been "in vacancy". However, the number and range of good preachers that have taken services since May have been great.

In June, we took our summer holiday to our favourite cottage on the Isle of Bute. It was a good holiday although Laura's morning sickness was quite bad at that stage.

The Scottish summer wasn't great this year. I can hardly remember more than a week of hot sunny weather throughout the three months of June, July and August.

From September through to December, our main focus has been on getting ready for the new arrival. It is amazing just how much needs done around the house and how much equipment needs to be sought, reviewed, bought and assembled. But by Christmas we got there. Because there's no way to know when the bambino will decide to come, you have to be on standby all the time. That makes things exciting, but it also makes things tense, especially now we are in the last few weeks.

As far as my faith goes, it has also been an up and down year, but I feel that I have grown this year in understanding of theology and in trusting the Lord. I feel very content as we head into 2012.

Wednesday, 5 January 2011

My Father's Death

James Love Miller (1929-2011)

My father died peacefully but suddenly in the early hours of 1st January 2011. He was 81 years old. My mother and the rest of the family are all deeply mourning his loss. The date of the funeral has now been set for Monday, 17th January 2011.

James Love Miller was born in Glasgow on 3rd October 1929 and he was the second youngest of the eight children of Thomas Miller (1890-1973) and Mary Miller née Bryant (1891-1955). Coincidentally he shared his birthday with my mother though she was born in a different year. He was baptised at Guthrie Memorial Congregational Church in Calton on 22 October 1929.

He grew up in the Hutchesontown area of the Gorbals in Naburn Street and attended Strathbungo Secondary School, though his school years were much disrupted by the Second World War.

After the war, he was called up for National Service and entered the Royal Air Force. He was an armourer and served at RAF Scampton in Lincolnshire (the same airfield where the Dambusters Raid flew from in 1943).

After being honourably discharged from the RAF he worked in several jobs including his old job at a Ham Curers in Glassford Street and then at Kelvin Construction in Maryhill.

The family moved from the Gorbals to Maryhill and a new house at Langa Street.

Later he moved to his main career as a civil servant for the Ministry of Defence at HM Naval Base Clyde at Faslane, where he worked doing work that cannot be disclosed here for reasons of national security. He worked there through till his retirement in 1992.

Aside from work my dad was a very social man and a committed Protestant. He was a member of the Church of Scotland, of the Orange Lodge and the Black Preceptory. It was at an Orange Lodge social dance that he met my mother Christine McCulloch in 1967. They married on 23 October 1971 and then moved in to her her house in Abercromby Street and then in 1978 to a newer and larger house in Bridgeton. They have four children - me and my three sisters. We are a close family and though he later stopped going to lodge meetings he was always involved at church with the rest of us and he had a quiet but real faith and he attended church more regularly in later years.

He was a lifelong Clyde FC supporter and used to travel regularly to home and away games although his time for this decreased in later years especially when Clyde moved away from their traditional home at Shawfield Stadium. He also was very knowledgeable about horse racing and enjoyed betting - especially when he won!

His main other interests were watching films and television, doing DIY (which he was still doing up till last October when he helped me with my garden shed), and spending time with his wife and family.

I am immensely proud of my father and how he helped bring me and my three sisters up. Above all he was my friend and I will miss his wisdom, his humour and the affection he always had for all of us so very much.

Wednesday, 6 October 2010

A busy summer

It's been a long time since I've posted anything to the blog, but I'm hoping to get back into the habit very soon. The summer was very a busy period for us as it involved the buying of a new house, trying to sell our old one, doing a bit of upgrading to the new one, and finally packing up and then moving in less than a fortnight ago.

Everything is starting to take shape now, and we're very happy in the new house.

I should have broadband up and running in a couple of days and then blogging will become a practical possibility again.

Tuesday, 19 January 2010

Moving Church

I have been in Bridgeton St Francis-in-the-east Church since I was six years old. In the course of the last 30 years I have been involved with so many activities it is hard to remember them all, but they have included:
  • Congregational Board member
  • Sunday School teacher
  • Welcome Team
  • Church Pianist
  • Choir Leader
  • Church Magazine Editor
  • Fabric Committee Member
  • Worship Planner
  • Leading Bible studies
  • Leading Worship and Preaching
  • Outreach Work
  • Elder
So it was only after a lot of thought and prayer and time for reflection that my wife and I have decided to move to a different church.

The main reason was simply the distance involved in travelling from where we live now to Bridgeton.

After spending a bit of time looking for a new fellowship that would suit us both, we've now settled in Sandyford Henderson Memorial Church in the West End of Glasgow. It's been a really welcoming church with excellent biblical teaching from the minister, Peter White, and the elders, and a real commitment to corporate prayer, local outreach and warm fellowship.

I'm hoping to get involved in the life of my new congregation in as many ways as I can once my membership is formally transferred over probably in the next month or so.

Although sad to be leaving so many old friends, it is good that the move was not as a result of any reason within my old church except the distance it is away, and so there is no ill-will involved. Indeed, I am hoping to continue supporting the church in Bridgeton in any ways I can, while making my focus on my new church family in Sandyford.